Frequently Asked Questions

As a dating coach, I help single men and women increase confidence, learn how to flirt online and in person, and attract more attractive partners. As a relationship coach, I help couples strengthen emotional safety, improve effective communication, and cultivate their passion to explore a deeper connection. More specifically, by working with a dating and relationship coach like me, you’ll increase your confidence, expand your knowledge of relational expertise, and craft and enjoy your dream relationship.

As a dating coach, I help men and women increase confidence, learn how to flirt online and in person, and attract more attractive partners. More specifically by working with a dating coach like me, you’ll learn to:

• Meet partners you’re attracted to both in-person, and on dating apps like Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid, Tinder, MeetMindful, or Badoo…

• Flirt and create chemistry when you communicate with women, even “9s and 10s”

• Send the right message so you land dates and stop getting ghosted

• Plan Fun Dates that lead to deeper connections and build strong relationships

• Look your best with respect to both your presentation and grooming as well as your manners and wardrobe

• Put your best foot forward so you feel secure, not anxious, around individuals you find attractive

• Find the right partner based on your lifestyle needs and criteria

*Note that Dating Coaches can go by a few different names, such as Dating Coach or Dating Consultant but these terms refer to the same thing.

Coaching and Therapy are not the same services. Therapy heals the past, coaching discovers the future; without healing the past there will be no forward progress. AND, SWIPE RIGHT is an intuitive dating and relationship coach. If you’re unfamiliar with coaching, here’s a quick rundown of how to find the exact support you need:

• Therapy - healing relationship wounds, deepening connection, and fostering intimacy through counseling.

• Coaching - preparing and coaching singles and couples for the relationship of their dreams.

• Intuitive - teaching you how to attune to your system to elucidate unspoken needs.

With an Intuitive Dating & Relationship Coach, you’ll learn how to improve your romantic skills. You’ll explore how to strengthen your relationship and how to deepen your connection with your partner. If you want to create the relationship of your dreams and ensure you’re supported for long-term partnership, then AND, SWIPE RIGHT is for you. Go ahead and get started now!

It’s both! It may surprise you to learn that men and women are equally interested in improving their dating and relationship skills. AND, SWIPE RIGHT is on a mission to improve your love life one individual or couple at a time. Relationships are enjoyed by everyone, and my dating advice speaks to the value of authentic connection when dating and in a relationship. Dating Coaching can provide specific training in relational skills like learning how to read body language and gaining a greater awareness of different communication styles, how to explore your emotions, and practices to increase emotional availability. You’ll learn how to assess readiness for a relationship and gain successful dating strategies to help you date better partners.

Yes. Relationship Coaching is my service designed for people who are already partnered up and want to strengthen their bond, deepen their intimacy, and foster a long-term, happy partnership. My relationship coaching programs are designed to be completed with your partner and include exercises to do together that will help you achieve your relationship goals.

As a relationship coach, I help couples increase intimacy, learn how to effectively communicate wants, needs, and desires, as well as position their relationship for long-term partnership. More specifically by working with a relationship coach like me, you’ll learn to:

Learn how to deepen your connection by meeting new parts of your partner and exploring new ways to relate to each other.

Increase intimacy through better attunement and learn how to understand verbal and non-verbal communication.

Increase awareness of your partner’s physical and emotional needs and meet your wildest romantic dreams

Improve relationships with effective communication and discover how to communicate your needs

Increase relationship longevity with future-proofing exercises and learn how to take care of yourself while in partnership

Plan for the future and prepare and position your relationship for long-term compatibility.

*Note that Relationship Coaches can go by a few different names, such as Relationship Coach or Relationship Consultant but these terms refer to the same thing.

All of my coaching programs have been created with the wisdom and knowledge I’ve accrued throughout my life including a graduate degree in Mental Health Counseling, as well as a Master’s education in Marriage and Family Therapy, coupled with first-hand life experiences in modern dating. AND, SWIPE RIGHT is my dating and relationship advice and coaching masterpiece. But after years of learning and working with individuals and couples, nothing speaks louder than the feedback I get from my clients. 95% of clients report they’d recommended working with me to a friend. In addition to testimonials scattered throughout this page, you can check out more of my clients’ stories on my Testimonials page. Not to mention my features in GQ, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, Lifehacker, Splash, How To Talk To Girls Podcast, and more…

YES! Dating & Relationship Coaching absolutely works as long as you work with a good coach! When you want to do better in school, you hire a tutor, when you want to meet fitness goals you hire a personal trainer and when you want to achieve your relationship dreams you hire a dating & relationship coach. Whether you see results, after working with a dating coach, depends on a few things:

1. If you strictly want help with tactical things like texting? You can get immediate results with a self-serve program like my Communicate Your Feelings Dating Coaching Program.

• Struggling with self-confidence? It may take weeks or even months of focused effort to notice a real improvement. Many men and women who are considering investing in a dating coach want to accomplish larger goals, which is why I offer 12-week dating coaching programs.

• Wanting to strengthen your relationship and explore new ways to meet your partner? This is a collaborative effort and I work together with both partners to discover new sides of your relationships. Whether it’s a relationship sprint, a relationship course, a relationship masterclass, or relationship coaching. there’s a variety of services to help you find the right type of support to meet all of your relationship needs.

2. How hard do you work? Let me be clear, coaching is not a done-for-you service, it’s a partnership between the coach and the client supporting the client along the journey of achieving their goal. Coaching is not magic, and contrary to popular belief, dating and relationships are a lot like any other skill. The more effort you invest, the better the results you’ll get.

• You can’t cheat the grind, but in the same way, you get better at tennis by playing for an hour a day with a pro for 3 months, you will get pretty damn good at dating & relationships by devoting an hour a day to working with me for 3 months.

3. How well do you follow directions? Having worked with 1,000+ clients I’ve observed that there’s a big difference in how well some people follow directions versus others and this difference is directly proportional to the results guys get from my programs.

• Good at following instructions? For example, if school wasn’t too hard when you applied yourself, you’ll get results fast.

• Bad at following instructions? For example, in school, sometimes it felt like no matter how hard you worked, you just couldn’t understand things…Candidly you may not see results with my programs and I wouldn’t want you to make a bad investment.

Working with a dating coach can cost anywhere from $100-$10,000 depending on who you work with and the scope of what you want to accomplish. Three trends on the cost of coaching that I’ve observed to be true are:

• → Established coaches aren’t cheap. If a coach has built a national or international following, they may have more demand for their services than they can keep up with and their rates will reflect this.

• → Expensive does not mean effective. I can’t tell you how many people have told me horror stories like “I spent $10,000 on a coach but I’m in the same position I was in this time last year.” Interview your dating coach and make sure it’s the partnership you want.

• → Getting help shouldn’t break the bank. Good dating coaches have a variety of offerings that work for different budgets

• → Education and training > fancy Top Dating Coach lists. You are investing in the coach and therefore are benefiting from their philosophy on human interactions and interpersonal relationships. If your dating coach is on a list of top coaches but doesn’t have the appropriate education for dating and relationships, you may end up paying for dating advice that doesn’t align with your personal constitution and will end up being ineffective. Make sure to choose a coach that aligns with your interpersonal philosophy.

Speaking for myself…My Dating & Relationship Coaching programs range from $149 for my Courses, to $4,995 for my 12-week 1x1 coaching programs, with my Dating & Relationship Masterclasses in between.

If dating is weighing on you, and you’re ready to land a partner (or just have more fun and options dating) hiring a dating coach can be very “worth it” just make sure you hire a good coach!

A few things you can consider:

• What are the results worth to you? Most good coaches aren’t cheap but if a coach can help you build the skills you need to attract an awesome partner, then it may be very valuable.

• What’s your opportunity cost? If hiring a dating coach would represent a significant financial burden (i.e. you’d have trouble making rent) don’t hire one. But if the cost won’t materially impact your quality of life, hiring a coach could be a great investment, because there’s a terrific upside.

• What happens if you don’t hire a dating coach? Think in the future: what does your life look like in 3 months, or in 3 years if you don’t make a change? What would your life look like in 3 months or 3 years if you do?

Also, most good dating coaches (myself included) offer a money-back guarantee. This can enable you to try coaching with minimal risk.

Asking this question to a dating coach is a little like asking a barber if you need a haircut! But I’m blessed to be in a place professionally where I regularly turn down prospective clients, so I think I can answer objectively…The honest answer is → It depends.

Many guys can benefit from working with a dating coach, but some guys can’t…thee three key considerations are:

1. Do you believe you can grow? As long as you believe you have opportunities to learn and improve your skills, you’ll get good results with a dating coach. However, some guys believe they’re beyond help”, and this attitude is self-fulling…. framed another way, it’s hard to learn if you don’t believe you have anything to learn.

2. Are you motivated? The more motivated you are to make a change and achieve specific results in your dating life, the more likely you are to find value from coaching. If you’re merely curious, or you’re not sure what you want, you’re less likely to achieve results no matter how skilled your coach is.

3. Can you invest? If you can comfortably invest time, energy, and money in improving yourself and your outcomes with women, a dating coach can be very helpful. If you’re working 90-hour weeks, and don’t have the time or energy to invest in yourself, you won’t get great results from coaching.

While I’d like to call myself the best dating & relationship coach, honestly it’s impossible to identify one “best” coach. First off, comparisons are seldom apples to apples. Different coaches have different focuses that can make them hard to compare. For example

• There are “pickup artists” who focus on “improving your game” for meeting women at bars

• There are online dating coaches, who focus exclusively on dating apps

• There are coaches like me who take a more holistic approach.

Secondly, coaching performance is opaque. There’s no public source of truth for client outcomes, which would enable us to actually determine who the most-effective coach is. Many coaches don’t even publish client testimonials.

I do know one thing for certain, lists like “top dating coaches disrupting the industry” are not accurate representations of coaching effectiveness. The agency that creates these lists are not evaluating the coach’s skills, or their clients’ outcomes, rather they charge coaches money to be included in the list! These lists really are paid features and these pay-to-play “best dating coach” lists cannot be trusted. Avoid dating coaches who point to fraudulent credentials like this.

There are many great dating coaches out there, as well as plenty of charlatans to avoid…To find the right coach, the three most important things to consider are:

1. Do you trust the coach’s advice? Most coaches attract clients by sharing free advice on a podcast, blog, or social media (i.e I share dating & relationship tips on Dating Hotline Podcast ). Do these tips resonate with you, and seem actionable?

2. Does the coach have real testimonials? Good coaches will have dozens of client testimonials like mine (HYPERLINK) you can review. If the coach you’re considering can only point you to a handful of shady testimonials, run.

3. Do you want to spend time with them? If you move forward with a dating coach, you’ll be communicating with them closely (or watching hours of their programming), so it’s important you enjoy their company.

If you answer yes to all three questions, you’ve probably found a good coach!

In my experience, the physical location of your dating coach is not important. Virtually all dating coaches serve clients remotely (i.e Zoom and email) and relatively few coaches offer in-person services anyways. Focus on finding a coach who you connect with personally. Your ability to communicate clearly and comfortably with your coach will ultimately matter more for your success than whether you can sit in the same room together.

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